21 Jan
Just saw something which brought back many memories.
A Slam book page which i wrote on very last day of my college. Reminded me my last day in college 14 June 2007.
Thanks to slambook owner for bringing those memories back..
Page may look bit distorted, I have done some editing to hide my contact details 😛
2 Jan
The stats helper monkeys at WordPress.com mulled over how this blog did in 2010, and here’s a high level summary of its overall blog health:
The Blog-Health-o-Meter™ reads Wow.
A Boeing 747-400 passenger jet can hold 416 passengers. This blog was viewed about 2,900 times in 2010. That’s about 7 full 747s.
In 2010, there were 50 new posts, not bad for the first year! There were 80 pictures uploaded, taking up a total of 6mb. That’s about 2 pictures per week.
The busiest day of the year was October 12th with 57 views. The most popular post that day was Live in the Moments.
The top referring sites in 2010 were orkut.co.in, facebook.com, twitter.com, mail.google.com, and student-loan-consilidation.com.
Some visitors came searching, mostly for frndship images, frndship, friendship words, golden retriever puppies, and richa jain.
These are the posts and pages that got the most views in 2010.
Live in the Moments October 2010
4 comments and 1 Like on WordPress.com,
About Me January 2010
4 comments
Nothing makes me happy.. May 2010
3 comments
Arrival of my Laptop!!! May 2010
3 comments
People in Your Life September 2010
1 comment and 1 Like on WordPress.com,
27 Dec
Ever come across people who would ask you about your salaries before they wave a hello and smile. Some people are obsessed with being on top. Their obsession is of the type, if you can’t defeat everyone else, just kill them all, so there’s no one left for the first position other than you. These people are again clear indicators of low self esteem and materialistic love. There are many people one comes across, who will tell how the profession they chose or the course they did is the best thing to do. Have u ever come across these kind of people.
I have and trust me, there is nothing more annoying than being polite and smiling back to these people, while suppressing a growl and holding your hands away from their cheek. Ask me at such a moment ‘ how to mind your own business’ and I may not reply with words and may use some other means.
A person’s profession is his personal choice and no one is allowed to comment on it and when it comes to salaries, all I will say is ‘Humbleness’ with a little ‘Politeness’ and ‘Decency’ is what is needed. It is good to not have such people in your life and it is even better not to become such a person in your life.
All my growing up years, I have come across various people who lack the quality of humbleness. And I have noted that these people are somehow obsessed with boasting and also hint low self esteem. Otherwise, why do you need to be so loud when making a point that the whole of the room notices you and not just the person you are talking to. Or why do you need to say sentences like, ‘why are you wearing this dress’ or ‘I got a job, pays big bucks, blah blah blah’, when all the other person is doing is playing friends with you.
As I said, minding your own business needs a lot of humbleness, politeness and respect for the other human being. It needs an understanding on your part, that the other person is an individual with his particular set of choices, and he/she is free to follow his choices. You need to understand that you are not always right and playing Miss Know-It All or Mr. Know-It All will take you no-where and will infact take the other people away from you. So, the mantra is “Live and Let Live”.
If you think you are the goddess of fashion or a finance guru, keep it to yourself, because you know what, the world doesn’t care and nobody has the time to listen to you bragging and boasting. Also, you may not always find a humble listener. So, beware of witty comebacks before you open your mouth.
I hope this post will help some people recognize themselves and there places.
27 Dec
So what if i m not a Christian. God do not have any religion. So i celebrated Christmas in my own way.
Every year i listen people saying Santa will distribute gifts and all…but i never get any gift from Santa 😦 Infact i have never seen Santa 😛
Anyways , I started my day in as usual way..Did some home cleaning etc etc..
Then I thaught of some family fun. So myself, Mom and my brother, decided to watch a movie (So called movie which was released to break many records ). After the movie i was fully exhausted…Such a movie, i cud never imagine that such bogus movies can expect viewers to give 5 star rating..Anyways till 6:30 we came back home, with guild on our faces that we wasted time and money ,both.
Like every year, I had a plan to go to church. Finally the day was not a waste. We went to church. The environment of church gives some peace to mind. For a moment we can feel free from all tensions of life. Sitting there and just looking at beautiful ‘God’.
This are some of the pictures i took , the pictures itself reveals the beautiful environment that one cud feel.
Then we lighted candles outside the church and prayed the was we pray from god in temples, in Mosque or in Gurudwara.
That is it. This was my christmas celebration. I will suggest everyone to go to as many religious places as you can irrespective or religion or castes. Who knows which pray will bring all your wishes come true.
Merry Christmas!!! 🙂
9 Dec
Long time. No post.
Here it is 🙂
The day i planned to write a blog post, i met an accident , Little bit injuries on hands but taking a lot of time to recover.
But anyhow, I need to write something today. Feeling a bit upset. Seems like everything has changed. Infact it looks like my life has taken a reverse gear. Sometimes its good to go back in the state where you were used too be long ago.
Exactly 1 year since my best friend got married, the day she went away i lost a very caring and a friend who used to listen to my stupid talks, understands me well, knows each n every reaction in advance. I know you are still there for me but things are not dat way.
Its your first wedding anniversary tomorrow and i wish you Happy Marriage Anniversary!! 😀
I really miss you.
Anyways i have started taking a reverse gear in my life to get everything to normal. Now no one gonna hurt me that easily.
I am no more good at keeping friends now, May be i was never good at it. Have realized now and decided to live life the way its going on with a reverse gear to change my attitude towards circumstances. Changing attitude is not that easy, I am hurting myself each and every moment and at last it is good for me.
Now, No one can hurt me without my permission. 🙂
10 Nov
Many times we hear people saying he has changed a lot or my friend behave in a different way now a days. But to what extent is this truth? What exactly changes in them? Human nature cannot be changed.
Well, Yes People/Friends/Relatives everything changes with time. But its not the human nature that changes. These changes may come due to circumstances, habits, Surroundings. Or may be they try to change themselves for making some better relations, better friends. They forget sometime that just to become a part of different kind of lifestyle, they are trying to change themselves..Instead they should just try to fit themselves in such a lifestyle keeping themselves same as person.
Atleast it will not hurt people for whom these changes matter.
Well the reason m writing all my mind stuff here is that i m missing one of my close friend.
Just few questions for her, Why did u changed? Why i m not important for you like i used to be earlier? Either that was my illussion or you have really changed. Why you have forgotten everything? Why you dnt talk to me the way you used to talk? Ohh my mistake, Infact you dnt even talk to me, why m talking about the way of talking 😛
Anyways, I Wish U A Very Happy Birthday.
Ya I still remember your birthday and will always. Becoz i am an emotional fool 🙂
So, I will end up this post with a message for all my friends
But I don’t want that, no not for you
If you just stay with me we can make it through
3 Nov
Hey,
Just writing out a post to wish everyone a very Happy Diwali. Such a small post will not look good so just writing a poem.
Dnt hesitate to read as i haven’t written it 😛
Happy Diwali
It’s the “Festival of Lights” today,
It’s again the day of Diwali,
It’s time to dress up folks,
It’s time to adorn the thali.
It’s the occasion to throng the temples,
Pray to the Gods and give them offerings,
It’s an opportunity to entreat the deities,
To bless us all and rid us of sufferings.
It’s the day to light the diyas,
Ignite the rockets and burst crackers,
But it’s also the time to be safe,
From the fireworks and all the sparklers.
It’s the season to pay a visit,
To all our friends and relations,
To hand them over sweets and presents,
Diwali is our splendid chance.
But while you spend a time of joy,
Don’t think it’s merriment all the way,
Out there wait many of those,
For whom it’s no time to be gay.
Denied of laughter and smiles for days,
They know not what it is to enjoy,
Can you not share something you have,
Can you not bring them a little joy?
When you can make someone else smile
When you can be someone’s ally
That’s when you can yourself be glad
That’s when you’ll have a HAPPY DIWALI!
Those who want to wish me back..Just drop a comment over this post. I’ll be happy to see 🙂
25 Oct
Every journey has some destination and the way to destination is what we call road. Life is also a journey and the way we are living it denotes the road on which we are moving on.
Talking about life :
– Some people suggests to focus on each precious moment of that journey, rather than looking toward the future. Joy does not come at the end of the road; it is available now, while you are walking your path.
But just for fun and enjoyment, if one lost the correct way to destination then life becomes hell.
There are lot of twist and turns in journey of life and no two directions are ever the same. So its very important to take the right road at right time. Its not easy to return back in life’s journey.
Nothing more to write just want to end up with
” Think before moving on to this journey, At each step one should have control over his/her life”
20 Oct
I believe friendship is a relation which is involved in all kind of wonderful relationships. No other relation can overcome friendship. People sometime sacrifices there friendship in order to maintain good relations, But the fact is, Some of the most wonderful relationships, are the ones that the two people are still friends.
Friends are not afraid to show each other how much they care for each other and can work out any situation. When you keep that friendship with your partner, you can work out any problems you might have. You feel more at ease to discuss anything with each other and that will keep complications out of your relationship for a more stronger bond. You will find when you have a friendship in your relationship, you spend time together not because you are in a relationship, but because you genuinely like being with each other. That friendship will have the both of you having fun with each other because you truly enjoy doing those things together, like most friends do.
Maintaining a friendship in your relationship is not hard to do once you both decide that you want a friendship and work together to keep it. Most couples lose their friendship when no one is working to maintain it and they let go what they had in the beginning, instead of keeping what was developed when they first started. Friends are one of the most wonderful things you can have in your life and being friends with someone you love is the most beautiful thing there is.
So, the stepping stone for any relation is Friendship. Never loose it in search of maintaining other relations.
2 Oct
People live in fear these days. Fear?? Fear of past, Fear of present and Fear of future. But, lets think smartly. If we gonna live our lives in fear, then when we are going to live it happily.
There is a saying:
“It is difficult to live in the present, ridiculous to live in the future, and impossible to live in the past.
Nothing is as far away as one minute ago.
You can’t live life to the fullest if you don’t even know how to slow down and live in the moment. For some people living in the moment means just slowing down and pacing through the day with more deliberation. Others believe living in the moment automatically means looking for a little adventure, a little something extra to make that day a little different and more distinct than a normal run through the schedule day.
Now lets understand its concept:
– Whenever you are in some fearful scenarios, Never think of terrible possibilities. Look towards the best part in these conditions which is away from fear.
– Remind yourself that worrying about the future or regretting the past isn’t going to change what has or is going to happen.
-Always trust that whatever happens you’re going to be ok.
– Focus on something positive or beautiful right here and now and breathe it in. Let yourself fully feel it.
So that is what i suggest to everyone today. Just “Live In The Moments” and you will be always away from fearful situations of past, present or future.
Choice is yours : Live in the moments OR Feel Miserable
ALL THE BEST
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Helaine Iris © 2003
“It is difficult to live in the present, ridiculous to live in the future, and impossible to live in the past. Nothing is as far away as one minute ago.”
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